It's not you, it's me.
I just need some time for myself.
I need to figure some things out, and I'll let you know.
I'm just not fully vested in this relationship right now.
What I'm trying to say is.........
Blogging just isn't enough for me anymore.
But it's honestly not you. It's me. Or the weather. I don't know.
You may or may not have noticed I haven't been around as much. My posts have been less frequent, and definately half-hearted. I haven't commented as much either.
Here's what I can come with as excuses:
• My in-laws visited a few weeks ago, and I took a break. I haven' really been full-throttle since then.
• Spring has finally arrived. Last week we had gorgeous weather. I actually got a sunburn last week.
• I bought flowers to plant, but wouldn't let myself do it till I mowed our lawn. Our lawn was covered with thousands of dandelions, which I decided I needed to pull before mowing.
• I seriously spent 12 hours last week just pulling those flippin' dandelions. Then I finally broke down and bought some spray (that didn't work) and then mowed. I planted my flowers yesterday.
• I've also been reading quite a bit. I the rest of Annette's books and loved them. One in particular, House on the Hill, was beyond fantastic. The heroine is not perfect. In fact, at the beginning of the book, she's ungrateful and a little petulant. Her gaining a testimony is an integral part of the story, which I loved. I'd say that one is definately my favorite of all her books.
• A few weeks ago, I won a code for a free Shutterfly book from Angie. It expires on Thursday, so I've been working on that. It's fun, and I'm really excited about having a hardbound book with pictures of our family.
• A dear friend is moving this week. I've watched her kids a few times, and went to a going-away party for their family.
• I've been on this weird industrious kick. I worked really hard on the lawn last week, and worked really hard on my house. Stayed on top of the dishes and making the beds and keeping things tidy. I did FIVE loads of laundry yesterday. No, I'm not nesting. I'm definately not pregnant. I guess I just......have more energy with the sunshine out. Maybe I'm solar-powered. That'd be awesome.
• Then of course there's the usuall stuff with callings. Enrichment committee meetings, scout meetings, and activities for both. Busy as ever with those and organ/choir.
• Oh, and I went kayacking last Monday for the first time. I could write it all now, but it's kind of a funny story I'll save for when I come back. -->Did you catch that? I'm coming back. I promise.
So basically................I haven't felt a real need to blog lately. I've still been reading your blogs every day or two, but not commenting as much. (Sorry.) I'm sure I'll be back in full swing soon, and I'll probably keeping doing quick and easy posts, but I'm not making any promises as to when that will happen.
I know I'm not the only one to experience this. Have you ever had blog-burnout, or just wanted to take a break? How long was it before you really came back? And most importantly, are you all going to leave me if I'm not as committed for another week or two?! (How do you make the "u" with the dots over it that looks like a smiley face? That's what I want to do right here. 'Cuz I'm teasing. Mostly.)
27 comments:
Enjoy your time off. I may just follow you :)
Enjoy your break... ever since I took mine, I am having a hard time getting back into it
I think it feels good to take a break! I used to dread when I was away from the computer...I didn't have one when I went to Amish Country and it didn't bother me at all. I still couldn't quit though...I still love blogging!
I'll just keep checking back whenever you post. Take some time for yourself!
Breathe, Enjoy the weather and If you are still wanting to ge tout Avi and I will come and visit you.. thats way better then blogging =)
Have wonder break wonder mom. See ya when you get the desire back. There really has been a blog funk around lately. And it's all okay. Don't worry and just enjoy. We'll be here.
Have a Fun Break... and Break yourself a piece of a Kit Kat Bar :)
it is HARD to get back in to the BLOGGIN GROOVE once you've taken a break, isn't it?!?!! i know!
And I just nominated you for MMB spotlight. . . too bad for you!
Still love you though. :)
It is me, isn't it! I smell!!
(I TOTALLY understand how you feel!)
Trying to decide whether to feel guilty that something I wrote kept you from the computer . . .
Nah. :D
Good for you! I too, believe that I'm partially solar-powered. I have SO much more energy and enthusiasm when it's warm and I can be in the sun. You know how Superman flies up to the sun to gain his strength and power? (I'm sure your hubby will correct me if any of that statement is inaccurate or incomplete). I totally feel that way.
Breaks are good. And it seems that Spring and Summer roll around and there are more things that call to us. I know that I will be blogging less as the weather gets better and I get out into the yard more. If I don't then I won't have a garden or anything.
Been there. Done that. Don't feel guilty. Just do what makes you happy. BTW - I KNOW I am solar powered!
I hear ya, sister! I took a little break, and somehow I just can't seem to catch up (even after hitting mark all as read in google reader over and over).
And I just can't think of anything to write about.
But, I have noticed this blogging this is purely reciprocal.
I went from 25+ comments per post to about 8. Yeah. Apparently, it's not the awesome content, or that people just want to be my friend. It's wether or not I comment on their blog first.
Go take care of stuff. We'll be here when you come back.
mine comes and goes too..... I'll still be here :)
I've been taking a naughty little break by digging up good posts from my earlier posts (back when 1 person was visiting my blog) and reposting them to the current day's post. it's a lazy bloggers way of coasting for awhile, and I'm really enjoying it.
Enjoy your break. You deserve it! And eat some chocolate while you're at it!
no, we will no stop watching your blog....it's just you have different priorities right now and when things slow down we know you will be back!
Sounds to me like you've got Spring Fever. Which I think is probably better than the swine flu.
I'll still be here. Take as long as you need! (but I'll hold you to that story ...)
I still expect to see you miss solar powered girl. Lets get together soon. :)
breaks are good. they replenish. but don't make me a real stalker and make me come find you if you aren't back in a month or two...LOL! the world need's wonder woman. no one looks as good in the cape as you do! have a nice break cute little friend. we'll be here when you come back. ♥
enjoy it, i've been doing and feeling the same. I think its the weather for me.
been there... actually I am there still. I totally agree its nice to have a break. can't wait for kayaking story... I've always wanted to do it
I'll stand behind you. I fully understand and have been feeling similarly as of late. I say, rest up until you feel inspired again, and then join us once more. Do what you need to do.
Now, I guess I'd better get out there and pull the dandelions from my yard.
You're on my reader so I'll catch you whenever you decide to post. I haven't posted on my family site in months. Just don't have anything important to say I guess. That and I spend every waking moment at Blog the Day Way. Do I feel bad about that? A little, but BtDA is where my attention and my focus is right now and I'm okay with that.
I totally understand. But I feel that same way too. . . when I haven't posted much in awhile, I get worried that nobody will check my blog anymore. :) Sounds like you've been super busy! I want to hear all the about the kayaking!
TOTALLY RELATE!
I've been doing the same thing. While I still read in Google, I very rarely comment. It's too easy to get sucked into the comment vortex. Sher is right... blogging is totally reciprocal. Which is a total bummer.
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